Woman’s Opinion about Love

Love does miracles.

Love completes us. We feel we have someone in our corner who supports us even with our flaws.

Someone who knows us inside and outside and accepts us as we are in Life.

We know that, this person will be there when we are down just as we will be there when they’re down.

This ‘someone’ shares the obstacles of Life with us and lets us know that together we can survive anything.

Whom with we share our moments of happiness in this Life.

Whom with we  share the pain when our loved ones, our parents, pass away, and when people leave us alone.

We need someone to sleep with at night, no matter whether they snore or not.

We can always give them a nudge if necessary but it’s nice to know they are there.

We need someone to love so that we can give love to our children together.

To let all of them know that they have two people who will always love them more than anything in the world.

We need someone to grow old with so we can complain to each other about our aches and pains along the way as we slow down.

We need them in order to make the moments that we will later look back at as the most beautiful memories of our lives.

Simply, we need love to give Life, its meaning…

~ Source: Why we need love in life?

Who Am I!

Looking at mirror, trying to see myself from outside, but i see nothing!

I’m just another person.. another one living this misery we call Life, while it’s Death hidden behind high artificial walls.

I’m just trying to answer, maybe, the second hardest question ever, Who am I?

Maybe I’m an angel who lost his way to Heaven.

Maybe I’m a devil, who lost his way to Hell.

I can’t tell anymore…
I’m haunted by self-doubt..
I haven’t got any answers..

I’m no superman.
I’m weak as I can get.

I’m just anyone trying to live and let live…
I’m no more than a being.. who wants to be…
But I can’t !!

Palestine, 61 Years of Colonization!

During the creation of the state of Israel, the Palestinians were massacred and forced to leave their lands and villages. A real ethnic cleansing took place under the eyes of the international community! This genocide are called by the new Israeli historians such Ilan Pappé: the Original Sin of Israel !

Palestinian refugees leaving their homes in 1948, running from Israeli-troops, camping in the desert

Poverty!

Poverty isn’t being unable to buy a new car.. or unable to have better clothes.. it’s to be unable to find bread to eat.. water to drink.. shelter to sleep.. and medicine to cure your dying mother.

Feel the real drama of life, the suffering of humanity, feel Niger, Nigeria, Somalia, Iraq, Afghanistan, Benin, Yemen, Senegal, Bangladesh,  Ethiopia, Guinea, Palestine.. all the suffering nations… feel 2.5 billion starving humans…

A kid from Niger.. trying to carry the corpse of his dead mother.. who died because of starvation and drought...

Why did God create us?

I’ve spent a lot of time, asking myself, what am I doing in this life? I’ve never found a convincing answer to this question: Why did God create us?

When I know this answer, I’ll know my purpose, I’ll know what should I do in Life, I’ll find the right path…

I said, it’s impossible that 7 billion humans are living out there without asking themselves the same question. There should be at least someone who has the convincing answer…

For me, I think I’d better wait before saying my answer, I need to think more, I need to read Quran and Hadith better, and understand what God meant to say, then I may know.. and in any case, I’ll continue believing in God with no doubt…

So, do you know why?

How to Be Yourself!

I was sad. I decided to find someone decent to talk with, I searched my contacts, I found her. She seems like a strong girl, she has a nice personality, and she knows what she wants, I clicked, and she is with me. I started the conversation talking about how many problems happen to me because of my tries to be very nice to people, talking led us to the very popular phrase “be yourself”. I’ve always been stuck in this phrase, I don’t even know myself! I googled myself, I searched using my name, maybe I’ll find someone who wrote something about me, NOTHING was found. I wasn’t surprised, who am I?

In this moment I was very mad at myself, why am I searching for my name in Google, doing this, I’m searching for myself in the eyes of others, this means that I’m searching for those others, not for me!

I closed the web browser, I moved my pen to an empty paper, I wrote one sentence. I love myself, God, and her. The fact is, I don’t know myself, I haven’t seen God yet, and I’ve never met her, I’m just imagining, that one day I’d find her.

I said to myself I should delete this ambiguous sentence, and rewrite it. I decided to count what I know about myself, God, and her. I wrote a long list of everything I know. I was shocked, I don’t know anything about myself, I know little about God himself, but I know everything about her.

I found that I spent a lot of time thinking of God, and her, but I forgot to think of me!

I tried to see what I like in her, how would she think, how would she smile, how would she talk,…

I wrote everything I’d like to find in her, the shock was that I found everything in her, is in me, she’d be my mirror.

I burned this paper. I opened the web browser, I googled “how to be yourself”, I found myself reading some stuff telling me what to do, again! They are just faking it, that’s won’t be me, if I do what they are telling me to do, that’s would be me wearing them.

I found that to be myself, I should only do what makes me happy, what makes my God happy, and what makes the people I love, happy.

And that’s would really be me.

I live in Palestine!

FEEL the sadness in this image. LIVE in Palestine, the land of the most suffering humans. READ about them. FEEL them. DON’T believe what others tell you. Hundreds of thousands are dead, millions are refugees, more than seven wars were started by the state of Israel since 1948.

FOR ONE MINUTE IN YOUR WHOLE LIFE, OPEN YOUR EYES, SEE WHAT’S HIDDEN FROM YOU !

FEEL THE SUFFERING OF HUMANITY !

Palestinian-girl waiting endlessly at an Israeli-checkpoint

See my new blog: The Palestinian Diaries

What Women Want ?!

Many men ask this question, well, I’ve asked a woman to know myself.

Simply, women want two things: Love and Money.

Women seek security, Love and Money give them what they seek.

All women think the same, but want different things. Men is the opposite, we think differently but we want the same things.

Women need respect, most of women need special way of tolerance, and treatment.

They once said: “if she’s a maid, talk to her as if she’s a queen, and if she’s a queen talk to her as if she’s a maid ! “.

They also said: “when she says no, she means yes !”.

Well, I dont believe both sayings, these sayings describe women as if they are a (type)!! They aren’t, they are different human beings, each one has her own way of thinking, and likes/dislikes.

To satisfy a woman, provide her SECURITY; Love her, and sacrifice for her happiness.

Why doesn’t God answer my prayers?

Simply, you are the the reason.

If you want your prayers to be answered:

1- You should work for it. Life isn’t like sitting down on the road, and praying to God to make you win the olympics! Life is to work hard, and while you are trying you should then pray to God, for he helps you in what you are doing.

And remember Ibrahim and Isma’il raised the foundations of the House (with this prayer): “Our Lord! Accept (this service) from us: for Thou art the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing. Quran – The Cow – 127

When Abraham was (with the help of his son Ishmael) building the House, he was praying to God to accept their work (and bless it – my interpretation).

We should never stop trying to achieve our dreams, while praying to God to help us.

2- You should be sure that God is hearing you very well (Having Faith in God unsurprisingly is a must), and can do whatever he wishes, but he choosed not to answer your prayers, for reasons that he only knows (sometimes we know, like when we are sinning and don’t ask for forgiveness, we shouldn’t  then expect that god will so easily answer our prayers! ).

When My servants ask thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calleth on Me: let them also, with a will, listen to My call, and believe in Me: that they may walk in the right way. Quran – The Cow – 186

3- God knows everything. You must accept his will, you must be sure that he knows what’s the best for you.

But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knoweth, and ye know not. Quran – The Cow – 216

Before saying that God doesn’t exist because he doesn’t answer your prayers, first, look at yourself, judge your sins, and ask for God’s forgiveness, and then accept his will, even if you don’t like it.

If Poverty were a man, I’d have killed him !

Omar. The second Islamic caliph once said: “If Poverty were a man, I’d have killed him !”. I think I would say just like him. Poor people, do you think you have seen them? see this picture:

Nigerian Starving Female Kid

Update: as “moi” stated in a comment, it may have been Ali who said this quote. But, it’s not known for sure.

Why Did God Create Me, Universe, and Her !

Life has no meaning to me, and I’ve always asked myself, why God created all this? I have never found a convincing answer, I’m sure that if I read and think more, eventually I’ll know. Nowadays, I’m having a thought, a strange thought; did God create this universe, to make humans happier?

I think women are the fruits of Life. Women have superpowers. I’ve always said that if each man in this world loves, and marriages the woman he loved, there would be no wars, and they say: “behind each great man, there’s a great woman”. For me, loving her, is the fuel that runs my life, without her existence, I feel bored, and unwilling to do anything. I expect that our father ADAM – 100000000… years ago, was feeling the same as me when he was alone, I also think that if God, created a man instead of EVE, ADAM and the other man would have been fought to death, because of boredom . A woman makes me always present; a woman makes me a man. Without women there would be no civilization, men would just live to destroy what they have built. Great civilizations were created by the presence of great man fueled by greater women.

My strange thought, tells me that, God created men to make women happier, and created women, to make men happier, and created Universe to make both happier.

Am I right, Or just I’m in love?

A Dark Corner

I rest,
A lonely human in the silence,
A silver icon.
Looking curiously to my ambition,
To be the one.
Stammering out my evil thoughts,
Begging my forgiveness to be through.
Oh,
Lust controlled my soul,
Freedom, that’s what I call.
I can’t cry,
I beg my tears to fall,
But my eyes are empty holes,
That’s why my heart is crying it all.
People,
I’m dead,
I don’t have a sword,
Nor a hand full of blood,
So fear me not.
I’m telling you the truth,
After my solace,
In a holy temple,
They threw me here,
Like a rock in a hole,
I hear the knock,
Of a dear’s shoe,
Walking away,
Crying for the dead,
And this time,
I’m the dead.
So believe me when I say,
I’ve sinned,
But after death,
I decided to be,
A person that I want,
In a dark corner,
In my graveyard.

Once said!

Here are some human thoughts:

• Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much. Oscar Wilde
• The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Mahatma Gandhi
• Hate the sin, love the sinner. Mahatma Gandhi
• When the eagles are silent, the parrots begin to jabber. Winston Churchill
• Hope is a waking dream. Aristotle
• You see things; and you say, ‘Why?’ But I dream things that never were; and I say, “Why not?”. George Bernard Shaw
• To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides. David Viscott
• Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age. Jeanne Moreau
• Having embraced Islam, I felt as if I were born again. I found in Islam the answers to those queries which I had failed to find in Christianity. Jermaine Jackson
• Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction. Blaise Pascal
• Calling Atheism a religion is like calling bald a hair color. Don Hirschberg
• If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant; if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome. Anne Bradstreet
• December is the toughest month of the year. Others are July, January, September, April, November, May, March, June, October, August, and February. Mark Twain

Do I have a second chance with God?

YES. In regular life, usually if you mess an opportunity, it’s rare to regain it, BUT with God, it’s always available, to regain his pardon. In fact, God created us with the ability to do wrong things, and ask him for forgiveness, and he then forgives us.

By Him in Whose Hand is my life, if you were not to commit sin, Allah would sweep you out of existence and He would replace (you by) those people who would commit sin and seek forgiveness from Allah, and He would have pardoned them. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) – Sahih Muslim, Book 37, Number 6622.

Allah: Arabic word for God

If you look at angels, you’ll find that God didn’t give them the ability to do wrong thing. Angels always do exactly what God ordered them to do. In the other hand, if you look at humans, you’ll find that, in all God’s books, he ordered us to act in some way, and do particular things, but most of us didn’t do what he ordered us to do!

With God, not only you have a second chance, but also you have an infinite number of chances, God’s forgiveness is an endless space, God is the closest being to one’s soul, his presence is unseen, but we feel it in everything going on in our lives:

It was We Who created man, and We know what dark suggestions his soul makes to him: for We are nearer to him than (his) jugular vein. Quran – Qaf – 16

God’s presence is everywhere, if God’s wishes, he would forgive us all, but this only happens, when we ask him for his forgiveness, and act as he wanted.